The stupidity that cost me everything

                                               The stupidity that cost me everything

Once in a while everyone makes stupid decisions in life; some make it once or twice in a lifetime whereas some make it a habit. The core of making stupid decisions in life lies with the person’s attitude of handling situations and learning from it. Either you learn to improve or you push those decisions and plan to make some real dumb ass decisions which will lead you to a path filled with glorious stupid decisions. Speaking of decisions and learning when one sees a fire he/she is attracted to it out of innocence they approach it and get burned.

Lesson no. 1 if it attracts you don’t act innocent, pretend you know it, admire its attractive nature and enjoy the power.

Lesson no. 2 if you get burned turn on the water, not on your burned part but on the fire.

Hope you have realised that fire is a metaphor of expectation. Expectation burns more than real fire. Like when young girls see a very handsome (in some case not so handsome) man near them and immediately hormones take over their minds they start caring, wanting, dreaming about that man just like a monkey during mating season. All you want is action.

Now here again we see the rise of stupidity the moment we see someone attractive we want them in our life without spending a quality time in thinking about the upcoming situations. Before even the brain can say “wait let’s talk” heart makes the moves by accepting their pity as a feeling and then converting every other gesture into love. Once a drunken script writer wrote “pity isn’t a feeling” they pity you because it provides them fun, makes them superior, differentiate them from you.

So now we know that when expectation meets pity the love of stupid blooms.

Lesson no. 3. If it hurts at the first place stay away from it, don’t present another part to get hurt.

Getting hurt by pity and expectation is neither a prize to collect nor to display and certainly must have no place in the book memories because everyone know that the ink to write memories comes from emotions.

So far we have expectation from others, pity mistaken as a feeling, getting hurt by own expectations and collecting all of these as a memory under the category of stupidity that can cost one a happy life.

The question is when did it become so important to reach others in order to fulfil our own expectations? Why do we start having expectation from others but can’t even have one for ourselves? What is there in expectation that everyone craves for it?