The blind stupid

                                                                The blind stupid

There is nothing more stupid in this world than being a stupid believer. A lot of people believe that one day they would work hard and reach the heights of their life, some people believe that one day their lives will change and there are some believers who think that the dead and they can live together happily ever after. By dead i mean a dead relationship, a dead dream etc. 

Blind stupids are those who deny living in reality even with eyes to see what’s happening around them. They live in a house of lies that protect them from harm and by harm i mean truth. You see they have a choice to fight with their current situation that very situation which has been following them since a long time. Instead they make allies with lies and screw up in reality.

Living in a house like that is like facing tremors of reality more often than usual people do. If reality is a straight path in a desert than your dead dumb house of lies serves as a tree standing right in the middle of the freaking path. Every time reality chose to cross your lies you expand it by nth times. Living with lies is a blessing but what happens when one of the lies starts questioning you. Just to check where did started it from. 

Confusing is it? Well it has to be. The house of lies is confusing.

Think about a relationship where the love was one sided. The person in love never wants to believe that the significant other loves someone or something else. Even after getting cold vibes from them the believer wishes for a lie. “I wish and i believe that he will one day love me and we will be together” see that is what comes in between them and reality. People living in the house of lies tend to hurt themselves more than they get hurt by their beloved’s actions. The house of lies has a fragrance of dreams and the air is mixed with expectation and false optimism.

The blind stupids are afraid to face the problems inside them they prefer one lie to be told and believed over and over until every part of them starts rejecting the truth. In the war between lies and truth they live a life filled with chaos. Deny if it’s true, run away from the truth, believe in lie, build a new lie if the truth hurts. Live in the house of lies and fight for it as it is the only hope, as it is the only joy.

The may be stupidity..

                                               The may be stupidity..

Perks of having a creative side in self. You create more than you can handle. There comes a time when you feel no joy in creating things which others can see, admire, criticise, recommend etc. Blessed are those who can keep their creativity to themselves, in their heart in their mind. Playing with reality is no creativity you can’t create what has already been created. When you play games with reality you need proper to real tools, weapons and mindset in order to win or even just to survive.

When was the last time you had a face off with reality? It was not long ago but you refuse to admit it because creative mind constantly argues with you. Again creative here is a metaphor to dream. When you dream of something or someone you give it your best deny every possibility that reality has other plans for you.

Dreams always ask maybe reality is not that harsh, face reality with dreams in your eyes maybe one day the cold and harsh reality will allow you to walk on your chosen path. Whereas reality says maybe if they quit dreaming stupid dreams and face what i have for them with pride and dignity they might learn the truth of life that for surviving you need dreams but for living you want realistic attitude.

Reality asks to me, what is in this maybe thing that dream offers each and every one? Why you and others fight so hard with it to me? It is a lie? I take a deep breath and reply “yes i know; i know that saying maybe after ever battle with you is a lie but it gives me joy, satisfaction and hope. Maybe you will lose the next time we meet; maybe you are not as harsh as you look. Maybe gives me strength to face you again, maybe protects the remains of my dream, maybe hurts me less that your truth. Maybe is the cave where i don’t need light to see as there is nothing to see just to feel. Feel the lies it is so satisfying to deny your existence reality.

Reality looks into my eyes “stop chasing fairy tales, create them but don’t be a part of it, don’t play a role in it.” May be has made you blind if you walk on dream's path for too long you will end up walking in circles and then that will become your reality. Every day with same events, with same people, with the same you; the blind folded may be you. 

The stupidity that cost me everything

                                               The stupidity that cost me everything

Once in a while everyone makes stupid decisions in life; some make it once or twice in a lifetime whereas some make it a habit. The core of making stupid decisions in life lies with the person’s attitude of handling situations and learning from it. Either you learn to improve or you push those decisions and plan to make some real dumb ass decisions which will lead you to a path filled with glorious stupid decisions. Speaking of decisions and learning when one sees a fire he/she is attracted to it out of innocence they approach it and get burned.

Lesson no. 1 if it attracts you don’t act innocent, pretend you know it, admire its attractive nature and enjoy the power.

Lesson no. 2 if you get burned turn on the water, not on your burned part but on the fire.

Hope you have realised that fire is a metaphor of expectation. Expectation burns more than real fire. Like when young girls see a very handsome (in some case not so handsome) man near them and immediately hormones take over their minds they start caring, wanting, dreaming about that man just like a monkey during mating season. All you want is action.

Now here again we see the rise of stupidity the moment we see someone attractive we want them in our life without spending a quality time in thinking about the upcoming situations. Before even the brain can say “wait let’s talk” heart makes the moves by accepting their pity as a feeling and then converting every other gesture into love. Once a drunken script writer wrote “pity isn’t a feeling” they pity you because it provides them fun, makes them superior, differentiate them from you.

So now we know that when expectation meets pity the love of stupid blooms.

Lesson no. 3. If it hurts at the first place stay away from it, don’t present another part to get hurt.

Getting hurt by pity and expectation is neither a prize to collect nor to display and certainly must have no place in the book memories because everyone know that the ink to write memories comes from emotions.

So far we have expectation from others, pity mistaken as a feeling, getting hurt by own expectations and collecting all of these as a memory under the category of stupidity that can cost one a happy life.

The question is when did it become so important to reach others in order to fulfil our own expectations? Why do we start having expectation from others but can’t even have one for ourselves? What is there in expectation that everyone craves for it?